I know that women, after a certain point, often get so frustrated and feel so hopeless on how to find and stay happy and fulfilled in a relationship or even in the dating process. Your pilot light gets dimmed and the flame dies down. You become confused, angry and frustrated by what to do next and how to get out of the rut of dating or out of your passionless, unfulfilling relationship. Yet if your fear, uncertainty and doubt were removed, you would soar. You know that and I know that!